The Missionary Position
Posted by Kim Gould on August 4, 2010 in Daily Transits | 6 comments
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I’m not an expert on the mythology of Lilith, but as she is holding sway over the Cardinal Cross just now I did a bit of research. You won’t find Lilith in the bible, but I had a vague notion of her being Adam’s first wife. That story comes from Hebrew rather than Christian sources, where she it is told she was created at the same time and from the same earth as Adam. The word lillith has definite connotations of night (Hebrew), wind (Sumeria) and serpents (Mesopotamia). Even as far back as ancient Assyria the word lilith conjured up a darker predatory side of sexuality ~ the succubus and her masculine counterpart the incubus.
She has a history of being demonic and inspiring fear, particularly around having our sexual energy sucked out of us against our will. Very interesting!
I was curious to see Lilith’s take on the missionary position. I had heard that she left Adam because he demanded that she lay down and think of … well probably not England, but my understanding was that Lilith was accustomed to a much more active role and not just in the sexual aspects of her relationships.
Of course the missionary position is not necessarily a passive position for women, but I was thinking about the woman connecting to the earth (on the bottom) and the man as active creator (controlling the process from above). This seems a perfect reflection of the early christian teachings on gender.
In fact, there is much evidence that the so-called missionary position has been used for millenium. The Kagaba natives in Colombia preferred it because of the stability it offers; they believed that if the woman moved during intercourse, the earth would slip off the shoulders of the four giants who held it up above the waters. But generally the more matriarchal a culture the less likely they were to extoll the virtues of the missionary position.
The early christians were all in favour. Or at least those who weren’t celibate were encouraged to use it by those who were. The medieval Catholic Church believed it was less animalistic than some of the alternatives and Thomas Aquinas believed it to be the only position that didn’t invoke sinful lust. Which of course would be a dreadful thing!
Malinowski in his 1929 book The Sexual Life of Savages in North-Western Melanesia, records the nearly universal use of a totally different position among Trobiand Islanders [and] …” that caricatures of the missionary position are performed around … campfires, to the great amusement of the natives”
Lilith conjunct Mars, Saturn and the Super Galactic Centre is an activator not only to the way women and men relate to each other sexually but also the way culture informs gender roles and stereotypes.
Saturn’s involvement brings in the Pluto connection (Pluto currently in Saturn’s realm of Capricorn). Pluto is in a long term relationship with Haumea, the Creator Goddess of Hawaii who, like the Trobiand Islanders, would most likely would find the missionary position highly amusing. And then Venus is conjunct Makemake in the channel that connects our sacral centre (sexual energy) with our solar plexus (emotions). A powerful gate of sexuality. The natives of Rapa Nui were very free and open in the expression of their sexuality, shockingly so to the Europeans who arrived all gussetted up in their uniforms and fancy sailing boats.
This is not necessarily a raunchy energy, a lot of it is happening in Virgo. And with Pluto and Saturn playing their parts it is more about building powerful new ways of relating rather than bodice ripping and crazy bonking. I have no doubt it is going to have massive ramifications as women bust down the last vestiges of the wall that has been built to keep us from our masculine aspects. And as men bust through into the truth of their inner relationship with the feminine, particularly their deep fear and anger.
(Much of the material for this post came from Wikipedia).

There we go.
Lust for life and all its delights, above and below…
Indeed, I do feel Lilith rising kundalini-like.
Great is the power of woman, if she stirs she might put the four giants off balance, that is something!
Thanks for a post full of cosmic wisdom and multidimensional giggles combined.
And yes, let’s ride that gorgeous tame lion!
“…more about building powerful new ways of relating rather than bodice ripping and crazy bonking.”! I just love this line! Lol.
Thanx Kim
Not to say we couldn’t throw a bit of bodice ripping and crazy bonking into the mix Mariam
We certainly are in the divine feminine Kim. So amazing the energies that are unfolding and supporting each other from various sources… coming together to create the whole.
Personally, just holding on tight with an open Heart chakra.
Whew hew, indeed.
Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful intergalactic wisdom…. and this new log is superb! Much Love and Light to you as we continue the journey….
Namaste’
My experience Deborah is that you hold it gracefully and beautifully, that heart energy. Mine is open as well and yesterday I went into a situation that felt quite toxic, a long time since I’ve been there, and it made me realise how far I’ve come from that place. Part of me was struggling and I kept telling myself .. this isn’t you! Wonderful reflections of love we are.
from my challenge of the pull of intimacy, and difficulty in creating it… this is what i have been seeing lately:
the ‘bodice ripping & crazy bonking’ thing is a primal urge – at cellular or genetic level – to unite, create and enjoy the manifestation of the union, the diverse essence of the two (or twenty).
it can be likened to the pull felt by the hydrogen and oxygen atoms, which can be seen as the pull of the ‘vision’ of the water that will result as a union.
however, because of our higher evolutionary stage, we humans CAN (and are attempting to) manifest and enjoy this union in the intangible and subtler realms of emotions and thoughts.
we are seeing/sensing , and are capable of manifesting, the union (integration) of our genetic diversity in form of an emotional mix – a new form of ‘emotional entity’.
the pull of intimacy is the result of our ‘vision’ of this new emotional and thought-form form that can be birthed by the union of the two different and separate.
and i think, we are fast becoming conscious of the possibility of having (and enjoying) this ‘thought-emotion’ babies in place of flesh-n-blood babies.