Struggling on with the devil we know is not going to bring us rewards this month. Instead, try reaching out to others and facing your fears of being found out.
We all feel like we have things to hide. Places we’d rather not let others see. But that is changing. The dark places within us are about to be revealed as jewels, just waiting to be discovered by the right person. This week’s New Moon is about letting go of struggling on alone because we are too afraid of losing control to ask for help or even to say YES when that invitation comes along.
We are making a fundamental transformation, from going it alone to opening up to the thrill of relationship. I’m not talking about love relationships in particular. This is about having great relationships in every area of our lives. The whole idea of the rugged individual has cost us a lot of happiness. How many people are sitting at home watching television and chatting on Facebook to avoid their loneliness, even as I write this. We’ve wandered into territory that has left us isolated, even in the midst of company.
We are headed to new relationship territory, so different from the old established ways of relating that are based on lack of self worth. If I do this for you, you’ll do that for me. This is SO much more aligned with really seeing each other, really being there for each other, letting go of being invisible, allowing ourselves to be vulnerable, to be magnificent in our own unique way. It’s a non-economic relationship! It’s based on love and trust and a choice of true connection, rather than clinging together to survive. It exists outside the existing boundaries of our time space dimension and we are making it up as we go along.
If you’re coming up against anything that feels uncomfortable just now it’s probably because you’re experiencing a remnant of old conditioning. Still trying to keep control so you won’t be revealed for what you truly are. And yet that’s the point! We’re like the goldfish, this is the water we’ve swum in for millenium and we can’t even see another way to live. So swim on – around and around we shall! Even though, oh dear, we’re nearly out of room here. We might really prefer to take more on ourselves. Because that way we can keep control! We can take on even more responsibility for getting it right, avoiding the blame. Or ….
You are simply too amazing to stay in this little bowl, and you need to connect with others to get yourself free. Into a simpler and more vital life.
This week’s New Moon indicates a fresh cycle, sitting in the same gate as that wily master of disruption, Uranus. In 21.4, Uranus tells us that even enormously hard work is not going to bring us the results we desire right now. We’re sitting in sticky mud and the harder we try to pull ourselves free the more we get stuck. So, the best thing to do right now is to relax. Everything is fine. It’s exactly how it’s meant to be, even though the material realm may look a tad chaotic and not exactly under your control.
Here’s the trick to this whole set of April transits. Reach out to others even if it brings up uncomfortable feelings of guilt, shame, not good enough, losing control, too much change and disruption. Life is going to get miraculously easier as we develop a capacity to build relationships built on trust, love, caring, creativity. Neptune is helping us build better internal structures that support our individuality while also leaving us free and available for wonderful relationships of all kinds.
Ask yourself what you have to give up to make these new soul family connections. Is it worth it? Do you really want to avoid the risk to grow beyond your current limitations? Miss out on the joy of being even more of who you are? Letting the dispossessed parts of you out of Pandora’s box and into the world of hope?
If you’re experiencing blocks, limitations or unforseen complications at the moment, don’t struggle with them. Instead take some time to get clear on what you’re trying to achieve. Tune into whether there is a simpler and more effective approach. It will probably involved another person. We are reaching for something beyond the old kind of material outcomes so look for how you feel rather than what you might achieve. Consider how all this stuckness feels to the child inside you who was squashed, judged and stuffed into a life way too small for her imagination. What happened to that artist, astronaut, fairy queen? She really really wants to wake from her slumber and find her artist/astronaut and fairy queen friends right now, and remember how much fun and how productively creative magical play is!
You’re not a cog in the economic machine. You’re a multidimensional being creating a whole new reality space. We’re all just waiting. It’s a bit like the school dance, who’ll make the first move?
30 March 2014 – New Moon – Sun / Moon in 21.1 and Earth in 48.1 – Uranus in 21.4
15 April 2014 – Full Moon and Lunar Eclipse – Sun in 42.5 / Earth and Moon in 32.5.
21 April 2014 – Pluto in 38.5 square Uranus in 21.5.
29 April 2014 – New Moon and Solar Eclipse – Sun/Moon in 24.2 and Earth in 44.2.
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